LOS ANGELES, CA- I’ve been a fan of Julien Baker ever since I caught her early afternoon set at FYF back in 2016. When I found out that she was the opener for Conor Oberst at the Greek, I basically submitted my press/photo request to Conor’s  camp so that I could catch Julien perform. When I found out that she was headlining a gig in downtown Los Angeles, I made it a point to clear any appointments for the day to make sure I could attend the show.

There’s something so humanly vulnerable about Julien’s music that lures me in like a bee to a flower. I saw someone wearing a t-shirt at the show that read, “Sad Songs Make Me Feel Better”. I laughed when I saw it, but it’s true. When my heart is broken, and I turn out the lights in my bachelor’s apartment, it’s sad music that helps me deal with the pain. It’s cathartic in a way- at least for me- to allow the beautiful pain in heartbreaking music to act as a funeral pyre to combust all of the feelings that a heart can hardly contain.

It’s adolescent in a way. It’s the kind of feeling most of us had as an awkward kid eating lunch alone on the school’s blacktop. Sitting there wishing we could shout from our lungs the feeling of sadness and isolation we were then feeling. Then again, it’s not so adolescent when you think about it. I’m an adult. I still get that feeling sometimes. Face it, everybody does.

But 90% of the time, we’ll hold those feeling back. We keep it welled up within our souls, too afraid to speak our truths to let others know how we feel for fear of alienating and pushing away others as if we spoke with sour breath. And that fight with the self, a fight of sanity against restraint, despite any self assurances that you’ll get to where you want to one day, is often a fruitless exercise. It’s like shadowboxing an enemy, because even though you know the shadow is there, you’ll never be able to make any contact with it because it’s something that simply isn’t tangible.

But Julien’s music helps us with those battles. When she shares her soul with us using her steady soprano voice, when she pierces the silent tension with an emotive wail, we share her catharsis and experience an emotional outpouring without having to say a word. She’s a panacea for the pain and is everything that helps you sleep at night.

Unlike gaudy televangelists, surrounded by supplicants and choirs, who preach non-sensical fables to no end, Julien stands alone, for the most part, on stage to unambiguously and eloquently share her personal stories, fears and hopes through simple melodies. It’s over an hour of emotional narrative and I’m in awe that this diminutive woman is able to perform this kind of outpouring on a nightly basis. But I suppose even Julien is like an athlete, competing to the end, despite cuts, bruises and sprained ankles to deliver the desired outcome. In this case, empathy and connection.

On this evening, the audience sitting in awe of Julien’s performance rejoiced and reveled with every note, hanging on every lyric she sang. When Julien is confessing, we are confessing with her. When she is venting, we are venting with her. And despite all the pain that we share with her as she sings, despite that feeling of life’s claws in your back trying to pull you away from the light, we come away from the performance hurt less than when we came in.

So, yeah … I may have laughed when I saw the “Sad Songs Make Me Feel Better” t-shirt, but it’s true. Sad songs DO make me feel better. That night, after a long and … pardon my french … shitty year in all respects, it was as if I was baptized by music, and had the gospel of Julien help me release some of the pain and regret that I harbored over time.

Tomorrow will always bring with it uncertainty. We hope for the best, but expect the worst. There’s not much else to do but go home and get ready for the next day. But regardless of what the future holds, if your days feel a bit blue, and you need a little something to get you through the rough times, or need someone to commiserate your mood, listening to some of Julien’s music would be my recommendation.

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Editors Note: The setlist for this show (full titles in the order they were performed) is actually written into the piece. If you don’t feel like playing any games, CLICK HERE.

Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.
Julien Baker @ Palace Theatre 12/14/17. Photo by Derrick K. Lee, Esq. (@Methodman13) for www.BlurredCulture.com.

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